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Where to Find Sugar Momma

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Dating a sexy, well-groomed, and fit woman in her 40s or 50s sounds like a great idea, but that’s not the main advantage of a sugar momma relationship, actually. The main thing here is that such a relationship is always transactional and characterized by financial assistance provided by a sugar momma to her sugar baby. So it’s not just about dating a gorgeous woman, it’s also about getting gifts, money, getting rid of your student debt, buying a brand new car, and so on.

Of course, there are also disadvantages. The main problem with having a relationship with a sugar momma is actually finding her. Even sugar daddies are pretty hard to find, and the number of sugar daddies is much higher (from our analysis, it’s around 80/20).

But it’s not impossible.

Where to Find Sugar Momma Offline? 

The first idea that usually comes to the minds of potential sugar babies sounds like this: “Wow, I probably could find a sugar momma in my city!”

Well, no. We don’t want to say it’s 100% impossible, of course—we know at least 2 men who found sugar mommas offline; one of them has been dating this woman for more than 1 year! Obviously, these guys are as you think they are: conventionally hot, very tall, very fit, varsity athletes, tennis and horseback riding, you know the type. But that’s not the problem. The problem is that basically, even with all those features, they met their sugar mommas by sheer chance—offline dating didn’t work for them at all.

Why?

Well, because there are no rules in this game. You can increase your chances by choosing places that are popular among successful women, but no one can guarantee that these women would want to have a sugar baby. 

What are these places?

The chances of meeting such a woman in a premium-level hotel near the international airport will obviously be higher than in a small motel, in the mall, or in the park. It’s not only about the hotels, of course. Within the United States, there are cities like Las Vegas, Atlanta, and Cincinnati where you’ll more likely meet a woman interested in an age-gap relationship. Outside the US, there are VIP tourist destinations like Monaco or Dubai, so the chances of meeting a successful mature woman there will be pretty high, too. But again, that doesn’t mean you’ll find a sugar momma there. Not all rich, mature women want to be sugar mommas, and unfortunately, this phenomenon is still not that common.

How to Find Sugar Momma Online

The good news is, there are places where thousands of potential sugar mommas wait for their babies. They are successful and beautiful, know how it works, and know what to expect. You will not feel weird when you tell them about the allowance and they won’t think it’s prostitution because they know the difference.

These places are sugar dating sites. Not the ones like Badoo or Tinder, of course—it’s almost impossible to find a sugar momma there. We’re talking about dating sites like ours, which are designed specifically for those who’d like to find a sugar partner. 

Our dating site offers features very similar to those found on traditional dating platforms, including the same messaging tools, similar interfaces, and, well, the whole concept is very similar: people contact each other, discuss the details, and arrange a real-life date. But there are also some differences. We have an ID verification service and an income verification tool so that you can be 100% sure you’re talking to a successful woman who can afford to have a sugar baby. 

Another difference is that our site is not free to use. Typically, sugar daddies and mommas cover most of the costs, but on our platform. Additionally, we offer special discounts and even free premium subscriptions for sugar babies who register using their college email.

So, how to find a momma online? 

  • Create a dating profile that would stand out from the competitors on our site (you’ll have a lot of competitors, so it’s a very important step)
  • Text sugar mommas —they usually don’t approach sugar babies first
  • Discuss the details and get ready for a meet and greet (your first date)

How to Find a Sugar Momma That Doesn’t Want to Meet?

There are myths about sugar mommas and daddies who don’t want to meet their babies but want to pay them. Here’s how it works, supposedly: 

  • You send them photos and chat with them
  • In exchange, they send you money and gifts

Sounds a little bit too good to be true, doesn’t it? In reality, that’s something incredibly rare and the chances of meeting a sugar daddy or a sugar momma who will pay you for online communication only are extremely low. Of course, you can write in your profile bio that you are not looking for any real meetings but don’t expect to meet lots of successful men and women in this case. Maybe you’ll meet a few, but the absolute majority of them want real dates.

How to Get Sugar Momma: Top 3 Rules

What you need to know is that you can find a real sugar momma. Yes, we can’t say there are tens of thousands of them, and yes, finding them offline is an extremely difficult task, but if you go online on our platform, everything’s possible. Just follow these simple rules and you’ll get what you want.

  • Create the best dating profile possible. You’ll have to compete with tens of thousands of other potential sugar babies, and in such a competition, you must do everything possible if you want to win. Upload your best pictures, hire a photographer if you don’t have at least 5-10 high-quality photos, write an interesting bio, answer all the questions for better matchmaking, etc.
  • Discuss the allowance in advance. One of the main advantages of such a relationship is that everything can be discussed in advance, even before your first date. To avoid misunderstanding and false expectations, we highly recommend discussing everything, from your allowance to the boundaries, in advance. Typically, it’s discussed on the first date and is called a meet and greet.
  • Don’t forget about safety. When you’re dating them online, be extra careful: never share your personal information and never send them money especially if they promise to pay you more after that. When you’re dating offline, be careful, too: your first date must be in a public place and it would be a good idea to let your friend know where you are, just in case.

And the main thing to understand is: don’t worry about it. Yes, a lot of men would be scared by the very idea of meeting a mature lady who is much more experienced and successful than them – but in reality, such a relationship is 100% worth a try. It’s drama-free, it’s never boring, it’s pleasant and profitable, and that’s why you just need to try it!

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