How to Find a Sugar Baby: Tips for Newbie Sugar Daddies
If you’re sick and tired of relationship drama or your schedule doesn’t have much free time for dating, sugar arrangements are the way to go. You’ve probably heard of all the benefits you get in exchange for a small portion of your disposable income. In this beginner’s guide, we’ll cover the basics and walk you through the best ways to find a sugar baby to satisfy all your needs.
Where to Find a Sugar Baby
Getting dates is hard, but sugar dating isn’t a picnic either, especially if you go the traditional route.
The trouble is that negotiating a sugar arrangement offline is always a huge risk. You cannot come up to an attractive girl and offer her money for sex. If you’re lucky, she’ll throw her drink in your face and storm off. If you’re not so lucky, she’ll call the cops and have you arrested for sexual harassment or solicitation. That’s the fastest way to get in trouble and ruin your reputation.
So, is there no way to find a sugar baby offline? Sure, there is, but only if one of your pals is already in a sugar relationship. You can ask his sugar baby to set you up with one of her friends. Unfortunately, this approach only works if you know someone in a long-term sugar arrangement.
What do you do if no one in your circle is into sugar dating? That’s what sugar dating sites are for. Instead of playing the guessing game and setting yourself up for failure, you get access to thousands of sugar babies who won’t get offended by your offer. In fact, they are here to offer their services in exchange for your generosity. It’s a win-win solution for sugar daddies and sugar babies.
How to Find a Sugar Baby
Before you start searching for a sugar baby, you need to work on your sugar profile. We recommend filling out all the standard fields and uploading at least some photos. Once that’s done, follow these steps:
- Decide what kind of a sugar relationship you want. Are you happy with a cyber affair, or do you want IRL dates? How much of your relationship will be sexual? What kinks or fantasies do you want to explore? Answer these questions honestly, and remember your priorities when you look for a sugar baby.
- Pick relevant search filters. For example, if you want an offline sexual arrangement, focus on local sugar babies within driving distance. You can also filter out profiles without photos and videos and specify the preferred age range. Add lifestyle and appearance parameters one or two at a time to boost compatibility and keep your options open.
- Explore different ways to show your interest. Do not rush to start chats with every SB who catches your eye. Instead, add them to your favorites list and send out likes. They’ll receive notifications, and if they like you in turn, you’ll see them among your matches. Mutual interest will double the likelihood of successful chats and developing a relationship.
- Check profiles before responding to SBs’ messages. You’ll likely get at least a few unsolicited chat invites from sugar babies, but don’t feel obligated to respond. Instead, check their profiles to see if you like their looks and offers. If not, ignore the messages to save credits for conversations that might actually lead to meet-and-greets.
Sorting through the offers is probably the hardest part of finding a sugar baby. But if you follow our advice and take these simple steps, you’ll speed up your search and get better matches.
How to Get a Sugar Baby to Notice You
Despite our best efforts, SBs still outnumber SDs, so the competition is rather stiff.
So, you’d think sugar babies would be falling over themselves fighting for sugar daddies. But that’s rarely the case, especially for new sugar daddies who don’t know the ins and outs of the sugar bowl. If most of your messages go ignored, try these tips:
- Level up your picture game. Most SBs won’t even check your profile if your photo is blurry, out of focus, or creepy. Get a professional shot or ask a friend to take your picture at work, at a gym, or on your walk with a dog. You can also take a few revealing selfies, but add them to a private album to encourage SBs to learn more about you.
- Come up with a creative tagline. Avoid basic lines, like “Looking for a baby to pamper,” and don’t be crude. Instead, showcase your interests or sense of humor. You can also get right down to business and specify your needs to weed out SBs unwilling to satisfy them.
- Get creative with your pick-up lines. You’ll find stock suggestions, but personalized messages always work best. It’ll only take you a minute to skim through the sugar baby’s profile to find something to build your conversation around. Remember to include an open-ended question to prompt a response.
Use one of these tips, and you’ll notice increased interest. Implement all three, and you’re sure to get noticed and finally score a meet-and-greet.
Final Thoughts
You’ll love sugar dating if you’ve never had luck on mainstream dating sites or apps. Instead of getting ignored, you’ll have your pick among thousands of gorgeous young girls eager to satisfy your every need, as long as you’re willing to pay the price. Use our beginner’s tips to set up your sugar profile to get noticed, and follow the basic first steps to find the right sugar babies quickly.
