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Become a Sugar Baby: First Steps and Safety Precautions

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Who wouldn’t want to get gifts, travel across the world, and get money just for being pretty? Sugar babies seemingly live the dream. But how do they get there, and what do they have to do in exchange for all the lavish experiences? We’re here to explain how to become a sugar baby and what to expect from sugar daddies if you’re completely new to the sugar bowl. 

How to Become a Sugar Baby

You can’t become a sugar baby simply by deciding you’re one. Until you snag your first sugar daddy and get money from him, you’re merely a sugar-dating newbie. There are thousands of them on our platform and every other sugar dating site. 

Luckily, we’re here to help you take the final step and finally join the ranks of successful sugar babies. For that, you’ll need:

  • An alluring profile. High-quality photos are critical for sugar baby success. You want to highlight your best features (legs, cleavage, or your smile) but also show a bit of your personality. Mix in a few candid shots and selfies, and remember to create a private album with more revealing pictures. SDs will be more eager to chat if you whet their appetite.
  • Clear value offer. Compensated relationships imply an exchange of money for services. To convince SDs you’re worth the expense, focus on what sets you apart from other babies. It can be your flawless manners, your masseuse training, or your ability to recognize obscure pop culture references. Either way, mention it in your bio and ensure it matches your profile’s overall vibe.
  • Defined limits. Most sugar daddies seek out mutually beneficial arrangements to satisfy specific sexual needs and live out fantasies. If there are certain lines you’re unwilling to cross, make them clear in your self-description. You can also specify your preference for long-term or short-term arrangements, PPM or allowance deals, etc. Being upfront about the specifics will save you time while negotiating the terms of your arrangements.

Once you complete these three basic steps, your sugar daddy search will run much smoother. And before you know it, you’ll have your first meet-and-greet.

How to Be a Sugar Baby: Sugar Daddy’s Expectations

After you set up your sugar dating profile and get your first dates, you’re a fully fledged sugar baby. So, what does that imply? What will you have to do to make sugar daddies happy? Individual preferences differ, but most SBs

  • Accompany sugar daddies to work and leisure events
  • Go on dates and travel with their sugar daddies
  • Spend nights with sugar daddies, fulfilling their sexual fantasies
  • Stay in touch between dates to keep sugar daddies interested

You’ll need to keep a close eye on sugar daddy’s reactions and body language to learn if he’s happy with your efforts.

How to Be a Sugar Baby Online

Online-only sugar relations are rare. At best, one in twenty sugar daddies will agree to support you without meeting in person. You’ll need to offer something very impressive in return to convince sugar daddies you’re worth the expense. 

Important: State your online-only sugar dating preferences clearly. You don’t want to deceive sugar daddies and waste their time. Instead of winning them over, it will push SDs away, and they might block and report you. 

Pro Sugar Baby Tips for Beginners

Novice sugar babies often focus on getting SDs but fail to prepare for the actual dating part. Here are a few tips experienced SBs swear by:

  • Don’t make it all about the money. After you negotiate the financial part of your arrangement, focus on making the sugar daddy happy. Laugh at his jokes and be present. Show how much you like being with him, and he’ll keep returning for more.
  • Think of what you’ll tell your loved ones. Sugar relationships are frowned upon. Your friends and especially your parents may be unhappy with your decision. You can hide your sugar experiments from them or provide valid arguments to support your decision.
  • Check in with yourself and your SD regularly. Assess your mental and emotional state to ensure the sugar relationship still makes you happy, not miserable. Course-correct, if possible, or switch partners if the arrangement is untenable.
  • Keep searching even after you get a sugar daddy. Sugar relationships can fall apart at any time without warning. To keep the income flowing in, keep chatting with a couple of backups who can pick up the slack.

We’ve also saved the best tips for last because we want you to pay extra attention to your safety. So, don’t skip the next section. 

Safety-First Sugar Baby Rules for Beginners

Like any other type of online (and offline) dating, sugar relationships have a fair share of risks, especially since money is involved. To avoid scammers and stay out of trouble, remember these basic precautions:

  1. Use a separate email, messenger account, and phone number for your sugar dating.
  2. Never accept payments of gift cards from sugar daddies until you meet in person.
  3. Never send money to sugar daddies as “evidence of your dedication” or for any other reason.
  4. Do not share sensitive personal information (including bank and credit card details) online.
  5. Stop responding and block any members who make you feel uncomfortable or suspicious.
  6. Always arrange first dates and meet-and-greets in public places you’re familiar with.
  7. Have someone call you an hour into the meet-and-greet as a safety precaution.
  8. Arrange a separate cash payment for your first date and get your money before proceeding.

Better safe than sorry is the name of the game in sugar dating. Do not let the promise of a generous payment make you do something you’re uncomfortable with. No money is worth the risk.

Final Thoughts

Now you know what it takes to become a sugar baby and keep a sugar daddy interested. Remember our tips, especially safety-related recommendations, and enjoy the pampering and luxury experiences sugar dating unlocks. It’s all within your reach—just set up a sugar dating profile with us!

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